
From Start to Finish Line: A Letter to My Future Marathoner Self
- Patrick Rubin
- Feb 17, 2024
- 2 min read
Disclaimer: This letter is crafted with the heart and soul of a first-time marathoner in mind. If you’re on the brink of embarking on your inaugural marathon journey, dive in and let these words accompany you to the starting line. If your first marathon is still a dream on the horizon, consider saving this letter. Open it when the time comes, and let it be your guide and companion as you take those transformative first steps towards the finish line of your very first marathon.
Dear Runner,
Here we are, on the cusp of race day. How are we feeling? Do we believe we’ve got this? Take a moment and recall why this journey began. Was it a friend’s encouragement, a colleague’s challenge, or a deep-seated desire to prove something to ourselves?
This path hasn’t been solely about the distance under our feet; it’s been an emotional odyssey, a mental battle fought in silence. We’ve discovered our limits, recognized our strengths, and endured losses—of time, friends, loved ones, even family. Every sacrifice, every early morning, late night, has led us to this moment.
It’s natural to be swamped with a mix of nerves, excitement, and doubt. Questions like “Have I done enough?” or “Can I truly cross that finish line?” might cloud our thoughts. But remember, we’ve weathered storms far tougher than the kilometers that lie ahead. This marathon, daunting as it may seem, is just another step in our journey, a testament to our resilience and determination.
When the going gets tough, as it inevitably will, let your ‘why’ be your beacon. Whether it’s for a loved one, a personal goal, or that simple promise you made to yourself—let that reason fuel your strides. The strength to persevere comes from remembering who we were, who we are, and who we aspire to be.
So, as you absorb these words, understand that the encouragement they carry is drawn from your own well of strength. You’ve been the architect of your journey, the critic that demanded more, and the cheerleader that celebrated every small victory. This marathon is more than a race; it’s a homage to the odyssey you’ve undertaken with the most important person in your life—yourself.

As you surge across that finish line, know that it’s not just an end but a landmark in your continuous dialogue with your inner self. I, along with your past, present, and future selves, will be there in spirit, cheering for you, immensely proud of the incredible person you’ve become and are still becoming.
Here’s to the kilometers we’ve conquered and those yet to come, to the conversations that have shaped us, and to the endless possibilities that await. We’re all in this together, and we’re all rooting for you.
With deepest admiration and unwavering support,
[You]
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